I made an offer on a piece of land 3 days ago and have not received a response. I am worried that inquiring about the status will make us seem desperate and decrease our negotiating power. At the same time, when I made the offer, she said we had competition and to be prepared to lose (which I am not). Our offer was 30% below asking price because the land needs $$$ (in addition to the cost of building a home), to run utilities, pave a driveway, etc. This cost comes out to about 30% of the asking price. We also had some contingencies. If the agent is indeed telling the truth, I don't want them to take too long to counteroffer because they may be telling the other party what we offered in the hopes of starting a bidding war, which I would hate to get into. Should I call her and set a deadline for a response?
FYI: The seller's agent wouldn't let another agent show us the property, we had to go through her directly, so she is acting as a dual agent representing both the seller and us.